“Having siblings” - how do I prepare my child for this?

Sibling Book: Prepare your child sensitively for “getting a sibling”! A second or third child significantly changes the family dynamic. Especially for the firstborn, the arrival of a sibling is a challenge, as they may feel “dethroned” by the new baby, which can lead to jealousy. Newborns naturally draw a lot of attention, which can be difficult for the older child. Our carefully selected children’s books for ages 2 and up help prepare your child for this change in a playful and loving way.

They promote understanding, strengthen the emotional bond within the family, and reduce jealousy. Recommended by parents, these sibling books offer practical stories that help children accept their new role as a big brother or big sister.

Discover warm and age-appropriate books that support family harmony!

Sibling book and children's books about having siblings*

"A sibling for the little owl" by Debi Gliori
A very sweet and funny beginner's book on the subject.

Baby is Here: Four-Color Board Book (German) by Danielle Graf
Toni is getting a sibling. At first, it's very exciting. But soon the question arises: Can the baby be returned? Needs-oriented, full of everyday situations (including negative ones!), and beautifully illustrated.

Our tip: “Tara and the missing knitting needle”

Story from Tara & Pips

The story is ideal when the older child is particularly jealous, breaks things, or withdraws from their parents.

It helps the older child to express their anger.

Bobo Siebenschläfer gets a sibling from Markus Osterwalder
Bobo is getting a baby brother or sister and is full of anticipation and helps the parents with the preparations. Very loving and positive - especially great if your child is already a Bobo fan.

We are now four! From Sabine Cuno
Small babies cry, can't play ball yet and demand attention from mom - it's easy to get jealous and angry. These aspects are also covered in detail in this book.

Our baby (Why? Why? Why?) junior, Volume 12
The well-known series has also published a realistic children's book on the subject of new additions to the family.
This book is characterized by realistic pictures:
- Mom's belly gets bigger over time
- The baby is naked at birth with umbilical cord 
- Mom is ready to go after the birth
- the baby is breastfed and given a bottle

When is the right time to tell your child about the new sibling? Opinions vary – but it should be done at the latest when the belly is already quite visible.

More about the right timing can be found in the article: When Little Kids Become Big Siblings. Or: "How Do I Tell My Child?"